My apologies for this delayed update. When the situation is stable and “all is well” then one tends to fit into a groove and let life takes its course. No deft handling warranted nor any change required. Such has, touch wood, been the case with Mrs DeMellow, these last few months.
Here is an update on Mrs DeMellow
After her hospitalisation at the Holy Family Hospital in Delhi last October / November, Mrs DeMellow was moved to Anand Seva Prakalp run by Mr & Mrs Pranav Shukla. We had the following mail from Mr I L Bhatia, who has been the principal care giver for Mrs DeMellow. His association with her dates back to the time when he worked with her husband. Mrs DeMellow, at age 96, has implicit trust in him and with good reason!!
Dear Mr. Khurana,
I had gone to meet Mrs. deMellow this morning as she had sent a couple of messages for seeing her – although I had met her only a fortnight back when Mr. Manjit Dayal had also accompanied me. There is not much improvement in her health and since Mrs. Shukla had taken ill more than a month back, she is not going to the Home since then. However, Mrs. deMellow appeared to be happy with the maid and didn’t have any serious complaint except that the bathroom is primitive. She is still unable to stand, much alone walk. She however still talks of returning to her flat and managing with the help of two maid servants, which to my mind is impossible! I told her to relax and first get well and be strong enough to walk and think of returning to her flat only after 6-8 months when she is able to do her daily routines herself. She however said that she eats well. I had taken the things desired by her and also attended to her other problems and needs which I am capable of.
With regards and best wishes,
We received additional funds for the Mrs DeMellow’s care. K S Dugal continues his monthly contribtution of Rs 1500 per month and so does an Anonymous donor, whom I know to be terribly generous in all such matters. In addition friends and relatives of Mrs DeMellow sent an amount to the account. Since these contributions came through Mr Bhatia we sent the following mail with a copy to these wonderful supporters:
From: Vijay Khurana [mailto:email@example.com]
Sent: Saturday, 17 November 2012 3:04 PM
To: I L Bhatia;
Cc: SIMEONS Rodney [Aveley Primary School]; Brajindar Mohan Singh; Neel Kamal Mehra; firstname.lastname@example.org; kavita dayal
Subject: Re: GREETINGS FROM WESTERN AUSTRALIA
Dear Mr Bhatia,
I refer to your e-mail below.
I confirm that we have received on October 25, 2012 an amount of US $ 578 which translated into a sum of Rs 31,813 into the account for the benefit of Mrs DeMellow.
On behalf of the Old Cottonians Association, we express our thanks to the donors. I am taking the liberty of endorsing this mail to Mr Rodney Simeons for his information.
We will continue to make monthly disbursements for Mrs DeMellow’s benefit. I will also place the details on the Old Cottonians web site in good time since I will be travelling next week. I trust you understand.
My kind regards
On behalf of the Old Cottonians Association
P.S. Mr Rodney Simeons is the Principal of Aveley Primary School in Melbourne, Australia
For the record, the Old Cottonians Association has disbursed from this fund the following amounts for Mrs DeMellow’s treatment.
Hospitalisation expenses Rs 97,664
Monthly payments for her up keep were made for the months of October to December and the one for January 2013 has recently been sent. We send a contribution of Rs 10,000 per month
We currently have a balance of Rs 238,004
This is for the information of all the donors to this fund and well wishers of Mrs DeMellow. Should you have any queries or suggestions to offer, please feel free to either mail me at email@example.com or call me on + 91 98 10 56 23 04.
You may always contact our President Mr B M Singh.
My good wishes
On behalf of the Old Cottonians Association.
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